Intimacy often changes with Alzheimer’s. While your relationship may evolve, you can still find closeness in new ways.
Coping with Intimacy Changes
- Talk with a doctor, counselor, or support group.
- Reassure your partner that you love them and will keep them safe.
- Spend time together in nonsexual ways.
- Show affection through holding hands, hugging, or sitting close.
- Explore new ways to meet your own sexual needs, with care and understanding.
- Be aware that medications can affect sexual interest.
Coping with Hypersexuality
Hypersexuality can show as frequent sexual talk, inappropriate touching, or attempts to seduce others. This behavior does not always mean the person wants sex.
- Provide reassurance and more attention.
- Help meet emotional needs through hugs, dancing, or shared closeness.
- Speak with a doctor to see if medication might help.
Top Tip: Changes in intimacy can be painful and confusing for caregivers. Focus on what still brings comfort and connection, and don’t hesitate to seek support from a doctor, counselor, or support group if these changes feel overwhelming. In many cases, somebody displaying hypersexuality may just crave intimacy, and that doesn’t have to mean sex. Often, holding hands and physical closeness can be enough.
FAQs
Are changes in sexual behavior normal for somebody with dementia?
Yes. Changes in the brain can affect sexual behavior and boundaries. Hypersexuality is quite common.
Can medication help?
A doctor may recommend treatment if the behavior causes distress or risk.
What if it makes others uncomfortable?
Gently redirect or move to a private setting. Provide reassurance and comfort, and avoid chastising your loved one for this behavior.
Want to Learn More?
We hope this tip helps you on your caregiver journey. To learn more, visit our guides to dementia and Alzheimer’s and memory care. These articles are a great place to start learning about this disease and what care looks like in a memory care community.
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