Making Hospital Visits Less Stressful 

Hospital visits can be confusing or upsetting for someone with dementia. Planning ahead can ease the experience for both of you. 

Before You Go  

• Pack insurance cards, provider contacts, and advance directives. 
• Bring a list of conditions, medications, and allergies. Ask if regular medications can still be taken during the stay. 
• Include an info sheet with the person’s name, emergency contacts, preferences, and triggers. 
• Pack comfort items like a blanket, photos, snacks, and water. 
• If you need to do an overnight stay, explain it simply and calmly to your loved one. 

At the Hospital 

• Bring a support person to help stay with your loved one while you talk with the staff. 
• Let staff know about the dementia diagnosis and how to best communicate. 
• Ask that questions be directed to you or kept simple for your loved one. 
• Give doctors a clear idea of typical behavior and note any sudden changes. 
• Step out for private conversations when needed. 
• Report new symptoms quickly to avoid complications. 

Top Tip: If you have to go to the hospital in an emergency, you don’t want to have to collect all these things at a moment’s notice. Many caregivers have a go-to hospital bag with many of these things pre-packed. This saves time and removes some of the stress for you in the moment of an emergency.

FAQs

What if my loved one gets agitated at the hospital?

Use familiar items to soothe and a calm tone. Keep visits short if needed. 

Should I stay at the hospital the whole time?

If possible, yes. Your presence can reduce confusion and stress.

Do I need to alert hospital staff in advance

If the visit is planned, yes. Give them time to prepare for special care needs.