Loss of bladder or bowel control can happen at any stage of dementia. Preparation and routine can help manage it.
Prevention Tips
- Remind your loved one to use the bathroom every 2–3 hours.
- Limit caffeine and fruit juices after 6 PM.
- Choose easy-to-remove clothing. Avoid tricky buttons or tight fasteners.
- Mark the bathroom door with a clear, visible sign.
- Carry extra clothes and supplies when going out.
What to Keep on Hand
- Disposable underwear
- Bed pads
- Spare clothing
- Bathroom supplies in plain sight
What Doctors May Ask
- What medications are they taking?
- How often do accidents occur?
- Do leaks happen during activity?
- Is your loved one soiling sheets or unable to reach the bathroom in time?
These questions help identify treatable causes.
Top Tip: Make sure you keep track of medications and share all information with a doctor. The incontinence may be a result of medication or another medical issue, and therefore avoidable or treatable, rather than a symptom of your loved one’s dementia. It’s important to rule these things out.
FAQs
Is incontinence a normal part of dementia?
It can happen at any stage, especially as dementia progresses.
Can incontinence be improved?
Yes. Scheduled bathroom breaks and changes to diet or medications may help.
Is it okay to use disposable products long-term?
Yes, if they help your loved one stay clean and comfortable.
Want to Learn More?
We hope this tip helps you on your caregiver journey. To learn more, visit our guides to dementia and Alzheimer’s and memory care. These articles are a great place to start learning about this disease and what care looks like in a memory care community.
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